Randomness and Christmas Tree No. 2

I almost waited until tomorrow to post as I have been tolerating a migraine most of the day. Must be the extra cold temps and the rain today. Those are the best Sundays for napping for sure, but sometimes they just scream out "headache". Of course, I have a small fortune invested in Excedrin migraine anyways...so what's new. I just couldn't keep myself from posting even though much of this post will be total randomness.

Hope everybody got bargains worth their trouble on Black Friday. Not me. I did a little online though...(American Girl.com and Baseball Express.com to be exact), but shhh...don't tell anybody.

I thoroughly enjoyed the long weekend even though I often have downtime anyway being a stay at home mom. Don't forget, I do substitute several days a week, but just having the opportunity to go to bed without having to set an alarm even for the kids was a relaxing thought. I was lazy, I admit, but I tried to do a little. I mustered up enough courage to tackle Big Dan's bedroom mainly because we were running out of dishes, couldn't find fingernail clippers anywhere, and we were all beginning to smell the aroma from the bottom of the stairs. At this point, asking him to do it is pretty much useless and since he does have a "job", I just decided I would do it for him. Funny how everything that was missing magically appeared.

Saturday, I cleaned my own bedroom and bath in between moments of facebook and blogs. I was determined to get something done constructive.

Today, before I settled down for a quick nap, Little Ann and I put up Christmas Tree number 2. And here's the history behind it.

Several years ago I started a tradition of letting the kids pick out a new ornament each year. They always looked forward to that and Little Ann would ponder which kind she would look for way before time. I loved watching how her taste would change each year. She has gone from Hello Kitty, Strawberry Shortcake, and puppies to sparkly stars and dancing reindeer ballerinas. Big Dan's choices were usually sports related, but he did get to a point it really didn't matter anymore. Anyway, about 5 years or so ago, I decided to get them their own tree that would inhabit all the ornaments they have collected over the years in addition to the homemade ones, and even ornaments that I had growing up. It has become what I call my "special" tree because it has so many mementos on it. Where my big tree has white lights, Little Ann loves that she can put traditional colored "flashing" lights on her tree.

Notice this extra special one.

They made these in 1991 at Big Dan's daycare. He was just a year old. Isn't this the sweetest thing? I love it.

And I had 2 of these matching puppy dogs that my aunt made for me when I was a kid. Wow. I couldn't even tell you how old this is. It was on our tree at home growing up and then I took it to my apartment with me when I had my own first official tree. It went in the archives for awhile, but I just had to get it back out for our "special" tree.

Here are several others.

And this is a close up of the one of Little Ann. She made this a couple of years ago at Scrapbook camp. This is her 3rd grade school picture I believe.

Hope you didn't mind the rambling. So.....do you have anything special on your tree?

Stuffed

Are you as full as I am?

Today the fam and I headed out for our yearly Thanksgiving feast. We don't see Pete's family very often throughout the year because everyone is so dispersed throughout the state. It is very hard for everyone to break free from life and get together. Because we see my family frequently, we have always done Thanksgiving and Christmas Day with Pete's side. My family always gets together for Christmas Eve and sometimes a Thanksgiving meal on a Sunday close to Thanksgiving. Not always. It works and everybody's happy.

Anyway, today we drove all the way into Texas. Pete's aunt lives on the Texas side of Texarkana actually, but telling the kids we were going to Texas for Thanksgiving got them excited so that's what we said. We were on the road about 3 hours there and 3 hours back so I am tired, but we had a good day. It's always nice to eat foods we deprive ourselves of all year while catching up on life and a football game. And I was so happy that Big Dan was with the family today enjoying himself and people he hadn't seen in a long time. And believe it or not, I totally enjoyed that 3 hour drive home listening to him sing off key all the way.

I brought my camera in, but forgot to get it out until right as everyone was about to leave. This is about the only good picture I got all day. This is Little Ann (in the hat) and my niece. (Pete's sister's little girl)

So...who's going shopping tomorrow? Not me. I love to shop...don't get me wrong, but this chick would much rather pay full price than fight those crowds! Good luck finding those bargains though!

Well, Thanksgiving is just about over. I know this is extremely juvenile, but you know.....I have been told I was a little on the nutty side before so why not. This video is the epitome of stupid, but for some reason it just makes me laugh! Hope everyone had a great day.

Oh yeah! Note to self: Next vehicle most definitely will have dual thermostat controls!

Enjoy!

Thankful Thoughts

I thought long and hard about adding this song to my profile as background music during the month of November, but I know how distracting music is to me, so I chose to save it for this particular post. I was first introduced to this song when I was in college. Our MBSF choir sang it and I immediately fell in love with it. It is very fitting for Thanksgiving and I hope you will take the time to listen and meditate.



Now, with that being said, I just wanted to take a moment to share a few things I am thankful for.

First and foremost, I am so thankful for my God. I'm so unworthy and for some reason He just keeps blessing me and blessing me.

I am so very thankful for my parents. They are such wonderful people. Tonight when I went to pick up Little Ann, my dad had sent home with her the homemade butter they had churned together from his fresh cow milk. FRESH COW MILK, people. I mean, really, how many of us can say we have actually made butter with our papaw. That is some kind of memory to make and I am so thankful for those times my parents share with my kids. And my mom....well, you can read all about her here, but I must say, she sent home with me tonight 2 new monogrammed hand towels (because she said the other one hanging was worn out...lol...she notices stuff when she comes to my house) AND get this. I had been in our capital city again today with a broken laptop and she knew I was going to be behind on my cooking for tomorrow's get together with Pete's family . She got my pie started and sent it home with me!! What a mom.

I am so thankful for my friends. My past and present. I love them all and am so very thankful for them. Just yesterday I reunited with my first and only college roommate.

We had a delicious lunch and spent a lot of time talking and laughing about old times. She taught me well how to sow my wild oats...lol. (and I told her I was giving her that credit). I'm glad we were able to spend this time together and I hope we can do it again.

I am so thankful for my family. My children are blessings from Heaven and I couldn't love them more (even when I don't feel the love back). I think my heart will just explode sometimes with the love I have for them. And my husband. He is such a good man. He puts up with so much out of me. I know he loves me even when I am constantly complaining, turning the air up to 80, habitually late, forgetting where I left my head, too afraid to leave my comfort zone, leaving my flat iron on for the entire day, showing my blond roots by some insane comment that makes no sense to him, burning him up because I have my electric blanket on in July, and even when he spends days searching for socks that really should be in his drawer. What can I say. Gotta love me!

And I could go on and on. God has been good to me even though I don't deserve it. I am just a simple girl living my simple life, undeserving.

Most wonderful wishes for a Happy Thanksgiving.

A Little Boring Conversation

My apologies early on for this extra ordinary b-o-r-i-n-g post. Not much has been going on today and I refuse to whine anymore...at least for today. (I only have an hour left so maybe that's do-able)

Got this email a few days ago. Love it.

Tonight was our regular Girl Scouts meeting. The girls are working on designing an ornament made out of natural resources for a contest. The entries are displayed at the county courthouse and the girls are invited to a Christmas tea, I guess you could say to view the entries. This year they designed their own tree out of pine cones. The star is from pine straw and of course the snow is cotton and the lights and ornaments are hand made. It turned out cute. Hope we win!


And I blogged about putting my own tree up as well. Little Ann and I did this on Saturday. I always enjoy just sitting in the living room with the overhead and lamp lights off just taking in the beauty of the sparkling tree. When Little Ann was a baby her first Christmas, we spent countless hours at night rocking by the light of the tree. My mother bought me a few new ornaments when she was out shopping the other day. Yea! She loves me. She really loves me.

Tomorrow I am getting my laptop back. I am so excited. Now I can revert back to my old lazy lifestyle of blogging and facebooking in the comfort of my own bed. Wow. What is this world coming to? lol.

I am also having lunch with a very old friend of mine whom I have not seen in approximately 18 or so years. We have had some contact over the years, but we have not actually laid eyes on one another since college. She was my very first (and only) college roommate. I'm hoping after lunch we may have a little time to do some Christmas shopping. Tommorow is the kid's last day of school for the week and Little Ann will be spending a little quality time with my parents.

And that pretty much sums it up. (And I didn't whine at all!)

Change

I haven't been blogging long enough to be familiar with all blog etiquette, but I do think somewhere in there we bloggers learn we are supposed to keep the whiny posts to a minimum. However, tonight I am hormonal. I am emotional. And have I mentioned that I don't like change?

Change. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Can it be both? I suppose it can. Even when I've had a hard time transitioning through the muddled times of my life, I can look back and see that the change was beneficial. Some change I have been able to control. Some change I cannot. I think that's the hardest for me..accepting the part I can't control. Mainly because I am somewhat of a control freak...(just in case you haven't figured that out). Maybe it's the fear of the unknown lurking around the corner. Or maybe it's just because I like things just the way they are. I mean really, if it's not broken, then why fix it? Unfortunately, some things change anyway. Like our children. Growing up, branching out, not needing us anymore. How about not BEING here anymore. I'm sorry, but it's just almost more than I can bear.

And I know I often blog about the fact that Big Dan is preparing to leave the nest and you are probably sick of it right now. I can't help it though. I may need counseling, seriously. It's literally consuming me. I think the reason it has hit me so hard is the fact that he has been much of a homebody over the years. He hung out with friends, but the main hangout was right next door so it wasn't like he was that far away. The former girlfriends were long distance so they were mainly telephone relationships, and an occasional double date on a weekend when he stayed the night with a friend. When he played sports and was gone, I was there with him rooting him on...the entire year as we transitioned from football, into basketball, and on into baseball. His summers were spent mostly sleeping late, hanging out in his room, playing video games or shooting basketball outside, or like I said before heading next door to watch a movie, but he was here.

Then....June came. Boy meets girl in theater, boy falls head over heels, boy now has a car so boy gets a job, and poof! He's gone. When school started, things became even more hectic. His days were filled with classes, then work, then the girlfriends house, and the family became a distant memory. And now during the week not only is he working longer hours in the evening, but he's added a membership to the wellness center where he works out for an hour every morning. Even his Saturdays begin at 5 or 6 am when he rushes out the door to get donuts with the girlfriend and then doesn't come home until curfew that night. And people please don't get me wrong. I am so proud of the fact that he is actually doing constructive things with his life instead of what he could be doing at his age, but there is no more family dinner time, no more 411's (talks, as he called them), and not near as many sibling arguments to break up. I've said all of that...to say this. It just happened too fast, I guess. Faster than I really had time to prepare myself for. And really, I knew it would, but it makes me sad.

Especially when it's time to do this:

Look how sweet this little 6 year old boy is. Putting the tree up was something he loved doing every year. I knew I was in trouble if I started without him.

And the tradition of doing it as a family remained every year.....we just added another little helper.

Up until last year that is. I think 11th grade is when Big Dan decided talking on the cell phone and watching us do it was way more cool, but at least he was here..in our presence.

But not yesterday. If I would've waited on him this year, I think I would still be waiting. Pete helped me get the Christmas decor from the attic and into the house before he went to bed, but it was Little Ann that ran got the Martina McBryde Christmas CD and so excitedly helped me accomplish the task of putting up the tree this year.

I'm trying hard to accept this change for I know it is beyond my control. Growing up is hard...and not just for him, but for everyone. I am praying that God will give me the strength I need to get through these hard times, especially the ones where he so proudly lets me know how excited he will be when he no longer lives with us. Um...can you say rude awakening?? Been there, done that.

But for now, I am resigned to the fact that Little Ann and I will have to start our own Christmas traditions.

Oh, did I say.. you should totally blame the hormones?

Spoiler!...Cute Guys Ahead.

If you read my post yesterday, you know what we did last night. Oh my. It was the greatest night...and to think...it was all because Chickadee's Clark had a birthday!! Clark was our chauffeur since he was the only man and since it was his birthday he got to choose the Cracker Barrel for dinner. He also got chosen to be our photographer before we left Cracker Barrel's front porch full of benches and rocking chairs.

The rest of the night was spent rockin' out and goo-goo-ing and ga-ga-ing over Mac Powell and the rest of the band. I felt like a school girl again. I hadn't been this excited over a concert since seeing REO Speedwagon at the Arkansas State Fair my freshman year in college. I (sort of) forgot my 300 lens...actually at the last minute I talked myself out of bringing it because it's heavy and I didn't think I would like keeping up with it or changing out lenses during the night. Besides, from my ticket, I knew we were on the 11th row and I just knew I would be able to see and get some great shots. Not.

Sometimes being 5'2" is a total disadvantage...especially when everyone around you is standing and you get stuck right behind a very tall dude with a buzzed head. This was my view starting out.

It seems a little better than it was because I actually cropped the picture somewhat to get rid of more heads that continually bobbed in my way. Not for long though. About 2 songs into the concert, I had had all me and my nosy, want to be up close and personal, extroverted personality could stand, so I looked at my girls, said "I'll be back", and took off for the front row. Everyone was standing so they didn't really know if I belonged or not.

This was much better. Nothing between me and Third Day but a stage and a security guard.

I met another girl who had the same idea as I. We talked camera talk for a moment the best we could trying to figure out the best setting for stage lighting (with speakers in our ears pounding bass so loud my heart was about to explode), and before we knew it they had snuck down right into the middle of the crowd.

We took off and parked ourselves on the floor right under their noses. We sat right next to many young ladies under the age of 16, (that probably thought we were much too old to be as pushy as we were), but we were determined to get some good shots...and that we did. Can't get much closer than this.

When they moved back to stage, I had decided it was time to join my group and brag a little. The show was awesome. There were 2 bands that opened for them. "Revive" and "Need to Breath". Both bands did a great job. I think "Third Day" was actually on stage for about a 2 hour show. It was totally worth my $25.

Third Day didn't sign autographs, but their opening act, "Revive" did, and gladly posed for a picture.

Hey, did you notice I added Third Day's new album button to my side bar? I'm going to promote it a little. The album is great and not only is he very pretty to look at, Mac is an excellent singer. And all giddiness aside, I love what they stand for and the messages to their songs. You're sure to love it too so..go get it!

Have a great weekend!

Revelation

Forgive me for rubbing it in, I just had to.......leaving in 2 HOURS!!

In less than 24 hours, myself and some friends are headed to the capital city to watch these guys perform live in concert. It's their Revelation Tour and I CAN'T WAIT!!



I couldn't find the original video to this song that gave permission to embed, but I found this. Just take the time to listen to this song. The words are so awesome. I know I am bound to have readers that are dealing with something in their life they just don't know how to handle. Whether it be a sickness or even death, family issues, guilt over past mistakes or simply unforgiveness. Whatever it may be...Cry out to Jesus. He has the answer.

Matthew 11:29 - Take my yoke upon you and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart; and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

Wordless Wednesday....sort of.

Remember this? Atrocious isn't it?

A little paint, some new hardware, and a new doorbell....later.

Much better.

A List (or Two)

1. Look what I did yesterday!!!

And I didn't do it with that stick I'm holding, but I'm old and my jeans were tight so I was grasping at whatever I could find to hold me up when I squatted down. lol.

2. Several of you have expressed interest in my Miracle Whip cake recipe, so just in time for the holidays...here you go. Let me know if you try it and what you think!!!

In large mixing bowl:
1 cup Miracle Whip salad dressing
1 cup water
1 cup sugar (I use a tad over a cup)
1 t. vanilla

Sift together separately:
2 cups flour
4 T. cocoa
1/2 t. salt
2 t. soda
Add sifted ingredients a little at a time to other mixture. Beat until smooth. I bake in a bundt pan at 350 degrees for 30-40 minutes depending on your oven.

After cake cools, I use this little recipe for the icing.
1/3 stick cream cheese
2 T. stick butter
1/2 t. vanilla
Cream till fluffy. Add powdered sugar until you get it to the consistency you want. adding a little milk gradually. (A teaspoon or so at a time). Ice. YUMMY!

3. Angie awarded me with this today...

Thank you Angie!! You are supposed to list 5 things you love so here is another list.

1. I love chocolate milk. I know I've told you this before I'm sure, but I just can't live without it. I try and try, but I CAN'T DO IT!

2. I love Chili's chips and salsa. It is cheap and I can eat it until I am sick!..and I think I will have that tonight since I'm headed out shortly to buy groceries.

3. I love my camera. I hardly ever leave home without it. I wanted to take a picture of it...but hmmm....I couldn't quite figure that one out!

4. I love my heater. It goes everywhere I go especially in the winter time. Pete likes the house cool. I like it warm (80 is just fine..REALLY). So, when Pete's home, Mr. Heater and I are always together!

5. I love this hand blender. My mom introduced me to this several years back. I have issues with chunky stuff like big tomatoes in my chili, soup or cheese dip, etc. This works great to blend it up a little. Works perfect for me!! (Hey, shouldn't that be on a 'Works for me Wednesday post?') ha.


I am lovin' so many of your blogs, it's always hard to pick. It's a busy time of year, so I'm not going to obligate any of you. If you are on my "stalk list" (or not)....Consider yourself tagged!!

This is what happens...

when you attempt to leave your Halloween pumpkin out as decor up until Thanksgiving. It's a good thing I looked out my front door this morning and saw this or I might have my own set of maggot stories to tell.

It is a beautiful Monday here in Arkansas today. The sun is shining and it is a pleasant 71 degrees outside. I lit my spice candle and opened my french door to enjoy what might be one last glimpse of fall.

The kids are at school, but Pete and I are home. A friend of ours is coming over to join Pete in the man cave to load some bullets. Did I ever tell you how much into guns and ammo Pete is? That is why I chose Pistol Pete as his blog name. It was ever so fitting. I have to watch my step around him, ha...

I thought I might make another Mayonaise cake because Matt has commented on how much he loves it. The first glitch was that all I had in the fridge was real mayo...and the recipe calls for Miracle Whip. It's pretty much the same, isn't it? So I went ahead and used it. Then I discovered all I had in the pantry was 1 cup of flour instead of 2, so after I jetted up to our little store and discovered all they had was self-rising instead of all purpose, I decided it wasn't meant to be.

HOWEVER, Matt brought me some flour when he got here, so I am off to finish the cake.

I hope everyone has a great week.

A Saturday Simple Woman's Daybook

Outside my window.....I see lots of brown leaves on the ground and not in the trees.

I am thinking.....how I need to take advantage of this day in the house without the husband and the kids.


From the learning room.....High School Musical 3? Is that learning? Hey, it takes place at a High School, so that should count, right?

I am thankful for.....my friends. I am so blessed with friends from all phases of my life.

From the kitchen.....Diet Mountain Dew and brown sugar ham from the deli. Hey, I'm alone and I ain't cookin'!

I am wearing.....all casual today. Brown flip flops, navy knit capris and a green gap tee....and no, I don't even match. Who cares, huh? It's just me, myself, and I.

I am reading.....I am actually reading a book. Yes, I am trying anyway. It's called "The One Thing You Can't do in Heaven". It is for our bible study.

I am hoping.....that I can get our closets switched out from summer to winter wardrobes today instead of wasting the day away on this computer.

I am creating.....um, I don't know. Nothing?

I am hearing.....the wind blowing outside on this 49 degree day and the lull of the dryer with clothes turning inside.

Around the house.....I am getting tired of stepping all over a pile of socks I need to match and put away. The ones Pete has been looking for the past couple of days. oops!

One of my favorite things.....Mayonaise Cake. I know. It sounds totally gross....and I absolutely HATE condiments.. all of them except A1. But this is a recipe of my moms and it rocks. It is one of the only things I can create from scratch. You use 8 oz of Miracle Whip along with your other ingredients..flour, sugar, cocoa, etc..and it makes it soooo moist. You can't even taste the Miracle Whip. I put a (also from scratch) cream cheese icing on it. Oh my. It is delish! (And I made one last night and it reminded me how much I love it!)

A few plans for the rest of the week.....to be honest, I don't have many so far. I am hoping to get my housework caught up, the school will probably call for me to work (as they usually do every week), the THIRD DAY concert (yipee!!), and I am anticipating going Christmas shopping very soon. I may even start some online today!

A picture thought for the day.....


My poor doggie.

We always seem to laugh at her expense....



And before you judge me....this is totally NOT my beer. lol.

I can't stand alcohol, but it seems we have quite the rowdy bunch at the end of our cul-de-sac. Pete often brings beer cans up from the drive to add to our recycle can. The other day he met me in the carport and said.."Look honey, they left me a full one today!". So he went inside and retrieved none other than something to shoot with, because naturally that is the first thing a boy (or a man) thinks about.

As soon as he shot, the brew began to spew everywhere in the yard and Dixie was quick to start lapping it up. It was hilarious, but I began to suddenly question Pete asking him if it would kill her brain cells or damage her liver. So does it?

Happy Saturday.

Some News.

Ok, so Little Ann is a little offended that the dog got more comments than she and Troy Bolton. I told her it might've had something to do with the fact that I talked about bra's or maybe we just didn't have any High School Musical fans out there. Aw, come on. It wasn't that bad now was it?

But moving on now, I've got a bit of news. Some good and some bad.

The bad news. My laptop decided today it was on facebook-blogger overload and wanted to go on strike. Yeah, the brand new one I got for my birthday in July. Hmmmm. Good thing I took out that warranty. But, I'm in such WITHDRAWAL. It may be at least 3 weeks before I get it back.

The good news. The closest Best Buy is in our capital city which is about an hour away. That's where I had to take my computer. Our capital city has an Outback Steakhouse, so that's where I got to eat supper!!

More good news. Went in to Little Ann's favorite girly store and they were having buy one, get one FREE...And it was even mix and match. She bought a tank and got a necklace free. Bought a sweater, got the leggings free. How cool is that??

Bad news. I've worked so much at the High School this week, that I am way behind on housework.

But the good news is it's Friday, some old friends of ours are coming into town, and I've got the weekend to chill-kid free. (I may have to visit the old deer stand again. lol.)

And in case any of you have noticed, I have 2 traffic feeds going on right now on my sidebar. I am just testing them out to see which one I like better. I do love seeing what towns you come from. Thanks for reading me!
Have a great weekend!

Decisions

Clique - (noun). a narrow circle or group of persons held together by common interest, views, or purposes.

I knew it was only a matter of time after she started wearing a bra, and shaving her legs, and getting girly fashion mags in the mail. Only a matter of time before the boy's games didn't hold a candle to the next best color of lip gloss, a hip pair of boots, or who thought who was cute. In a way I'm glad. In a way I'm not.

You see, I've always been a little concerned about how tomboyish Little Ann has been up until now. It's not been a big deal, really, but in the back of my mind, I always wanted her to be close to the girls. I knew one day she would need them....need their support and their giggles and even their drama.

It seems that in the past couple of weeks she has been different. I'm still trying to put my finger on it. She was noticed recently by a couple of girls in the "popular" crowd that all of a sudden after 6 years in school decided they wanted to be her friend. How quickly her self esteem has changed, as well as her vocabulary. We now hear phrases such as "OMG!", I've "totally" got some new "BFF's
....and to me, well, it's just kind of weird. I'm trying not to make more out of it than need be, but I can't help but worry about her. She's really never cared before. The boys never judged her and she was comfortable in her own skin when she was with them, but I know deep down how important relationships are. There is nothing like having a girlfriend you can share everything with.

I know this is only the first of many new found friendships and cliques that she will be a part of as she's only yet begun her journey, but I know how vicious girls can be sometimes and I don't want to see her hurt.

I hope that she will always remember that boys can be your BFF's too, and that she always needs to love everybody, not just the ones that wear name brand clothes.

Anyway, before I bore you to death, I "totally" bloglifed this from my "BFF", April and I thought it was the "coolest". So with Little Ann's invitation to "sleep over" with the popular girls this weekend....AND a trip to see the new HSM 3 movie, I thought it was appropriate.....and hilarious. We laughed so hard we nearly peed in our pants.

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Now, here comes the hard part. Tonight she discovered that her guy BFF (who now lives 3 hours away) was coming down for a visit the same night she was supposed to be hangin' out with the gals. What's a poor girl to do???

Scrapper Mom - Don't know how I deleted my sig, but somehow I did! oops.

Wordless Wednesday-#@%&!!

Long Overdue

I received a real life gift, several awards, memes and tags during the month of October, but it seemed as though the last few days of October and the first ones of November have been full of semi-interesting things to blog about. Some good, some not so good, but nevertheless, in my opinion, post-worthy.

However, I feel like such a bad bloggy friend for not acknowledging my wonderful award givers sooner than this. So, without further adieu, I am giving big hugs to the following people:

Naomi sent me this sweet, thoughtful package of scrapbooking goodies all the way from Australia. Inside I found some butterfly stickers, a memo pad with koala bears on it, a pouch with girly ribbons, flowers, etc. inside, and a precious rub on quote that said " Children and mothers never truly part, bound in the beating of each other's heart." That meant so much to me. She said that she had to pick this up after reading all about my empty nest syndrome..lol..

Heidi bestowed upon me the "Best Blogging Friend" award. Thanks Heidi!! Ditto to you girl!

Tonda gave me the "I love your Blog" award, and the "Kreativ Blogger" award. Thank you much, Tonda. I'm so glad you started blogging...(although you don't post often enough..hint, hint.)

April awarded me not only a "Kreativ Blogger" award, but a "Real Life" award. My blog is definitely about real life. Pretty much as real as you can get...lol. In fact there seems to be so much drama in my life I have no need to add anything extra! (grin)

I was tagged by Angie with that crazy book tag...soooo, even though I'm cheating a little, this is what I've got. The book is called "Boundaries with Teens". Great book. (From what few chapters I started reading) Page 56 had some boring content, so I moved on over to page 57 and the first full paragraph of that page says this: My friend was talking about rescuing teens from experiencing their consequences. Parents who rescue their adolescents often do so out of guilt. They already feel bad about their kid's situation, and often feel partially responsible that their child doesn't have two parents in the home. (This chapter was mainly talking about single parenting). I'm not even a single parent (anymore), but wow, do I do this! Ok, Ang...good enough???

Aubs also tagged me with a "mommy and me" meme, which I really do want to do. I am going to wait a little while longer on that one though. I still need to think about my answers, and find a good picture of me and my kids.

And....last but not least, with the "Kreativ Blogger" award comes a list of 6 things that make me happy so here is my list:

1. Blogging. This has become very therapeutic for me. I love being able to just let it all out and then having such faithful readers comment with advice or just a supporting word. I love you guys.

2. A clean house. Something about being organized with everything in it's appropriate place that makes me feel like I've got it all together...(even though I don't. I can think it anyway, huh?)

3. Sour gummi worms and fruity flavors of gum. My best friend knows not to ask me for gum, because I am sure to offer her some weird flavor of bannana strawberry with a little dash of watermelon or something like that.

4. A completed scrapbook page. I love this hobby. It rocks!

5. Cheering Big Dan on in whatever he is playing at the time. I am totally his BIGGEST fan and I have NEVER missed a single game in all the years he has played in any sport he has played.

6. Snuggling with Little Ann. She is 100% my snuggle bunny. She sleeps with me every night that Pete isn't home, and if he is home, I lie down with her in her bed until she falls asleep. These times are so special to me because with Big Dan being 18, I realize how fast the years get away.

(((((BIG HUGS))))) to all of you!!! I hope I haven't forgotten anything!

Family. Awesome Aunt...

is how I want to be remembered when my nephews think of me.

We are a very close knit family on my side. My parents have 5 grandchildren. Big Dan was significantly the "spoiled" one mainly because he was the only one for almost 8 years. He spent lots of time bonding with my parents and I know he holds a very special place in their hearts. And then came along Little Ann. She happens to be the only girl. And I must say she doesn't let them forget it. But when my brother and his wife began having kids, we added 3 more rowdy boys to the bunch. Rowdy, but each one oh so precious in his own way.

I love these boys with a love almost as deep as what I feel for my own children. Over the years they have stayed with me numerous times. I often wonder what they will remember about coming to my house when they are older. I try to make it a memorable experience for them because deep down inside I want to be "their favorite".

This past Sunday the oldest wanted to spend the afternoon with me. When we got home we unloaded a bow and arrow, a bb gun, and a target and Pete went out with he and Little Ann for a little target practice.

Soon Pete headed out to work and I left these two alone with bb guns and a stack of aluminum cans.

My brother wanted to take the older one out for an early morning hunt today, so I got to bring the younger 2 home with me last night.

Now they are gone, and all is quiet again, but I wonder if when they are older they will remember that their Aunt Scrapper Mom:

- let them put up a 3 man tent in her living room.

- played board games with them in said tent.

- let them stay up and watch movies until they finally fell asleep.

- allowed them to trash her living room and make roads for the Thomas trains.

- didn't bother to change them into pajamas.

- let them drink Coke straight out of the bottle...(well, that one just kind of happened... 3 year old in above photograph got to it before I knew it!)

Out of my Element

Apologies to any readers who are animal rights activists..

But...

You know here in South Arkansas yesterday was the opening day of deer season (gun). I have only been hunting 2 other times in my entire life. One time probably about 10 years ago because Pete begged me to, and one other time when both kids were begging to go, but they were both too young to sit in a stand alone. Pete and Little Ann got in a stand and Big Dan and I got in another. Big Dan and I didn't see anything because we made too much noise. He was quite the fidgety one AND my stomach kept growling which would result in hysterical laughter even though it wasn't all that funny. It was the fact that we were supposed to be quiet that made it so hard. I must say, it made for a fun family experience though.

I've been born and bred around deer hunting. My grandfather, my dad, and my brother all hunted religiously as I grew up. Some of my best memories were made down at my grandfather's old home place in a little shack that became camp. My aunts and uncles that lived out of town would bring campers down, we would huddle around the fire and watch as the guys drove in and out of the woods...some with the big one on the back of their four-wheelers and others with disappointment on their faces. Although I highly enjoyed being around my family and the fun times we experienced, I never once had the desire to dress out and head out to the old deer stand. It just didn't seem worth the trouble of getting up as early as required or freezing my buns off. Pete knew going into our marriage that I wasn't the outdoorsy type and after 15 years, he's pretty much accepted it.

But my heart went out to him this year. It seems that he's lost both hunting partners. Big Dan is so preoccupied with his 18 year old life nothing else seems to matter...and Little Ann....well, let's just say she's become pro-life. She refused to "kill another one of God's creatures". lol.

So, yesterday as afternoon hunting time came nigh, I realized we were the only ones home. Then it hit me...the words from a book that I had read bits and pieces of. It's called "His Needs, Her Needs".........engage in recreational activities that both you and your spouse can enjoy together....the couple that plays together, stays together.

I thought Pete was going to fall out when I told him I wanted to go with him. He was so excited. He began scurrying around helping me get my things together.

We sat on the stand engaging in very quiet conversation for 40 minutes or so. It was nice. Not too cold, and it was so peaceful just sitting.... pondering... watching the cardinals fly around us and squirrels scampering below us. I actually enjoyed it.

Yes, we saw a deer. It was a nice one. Pete spotted it first and counted 5 points. I got my gun in position, set my sights right in the perfect place to shoot, but just as I pulled the trigger he ran. And so, I guess you could say I missed. We looked for signs that I had hit him, but there were none.

I haven't totally disregarded the idea of going again. Pete says a girl with a gun really turns him on.

My 100th Post!! And Some Reality

First of all, let me just say it's with great joy I offer you my 100th blog post. I can't believe I have found enough interesting stuff to talk about for that long. lol. (Well, I guess at least maybe some of it has been interesting anyway). A special thank you to all who continue to read..(and of course comment).

Now for this...

Tonight's feature for my 100th post is going to be non other than Big Dan. After all, he's really the one that keeps it "real" for us...and did I mention he has the crappiest..with a capital C..the crappiest luck?

Or maybe God is just testing him. Whichever it is, I'm beginning to feel for him.

Did I tell you about the time last year when he got suspended for 10 days because one of his alumni friends came into the regional basketball tournament game with a spiked drink in a Sonic cup? Yeah, he did, and then asked Big Dan to hold it for him and then Big Dan took a couple of swigs. He doesn't drink or party and said he didn't know it had alcohol in it the first time, but I guess the 2nd drink was peer pressure....or just pure stupidity. Anyhow, somebody snitched and it turned in to a major thing. Lesson to be learned...if you're going to do something stupid like that, you should totally do it where you don't have quite the audience.

Did I tell you that this past April we bought Big Dan a car? Oh, and did I tell you that somebody side swiped him (causing $4,000 worth of damage)? And did I mention this happened less than a mile from our driveway on his way to school the 1ST DAY HE DROVE IT? Yep, it happened. I'm not sure of the lesson to be learned here. Unless it is to watch out for idiots on the road, because there are plenty of them out there. (I've been accused of being one myself!)

And once again, the bad luck prevails. You see, what was actually supposed to be a nice quiet evening...post hen party, obviously wasn't. Big Dan got off work at 11:00 tonight, walked out to the parking lot only to find his car window bashed in.

Glass was everywhere. But that wasn't even the worst news. They took just about everything he had in there...which included about $80 cash that was in the console, a couple of gift cards he had just gotten for his birthday, the fossil watch that he got from the girlfriend, his new bat bag AND the $100 first baseman's mitt, I JUST BOUGHT HIM..also for his birthday. They got into his trunk and took another bat that actually belonged to a friend of his, his brand spanking new wooden bat that my mom and dad gave him Sunday (for his birthday), and also another souvenir Louisville Slugger wooden bat that my mom had gotten him from Louisville. They had his name imprinted on it a couple of years ago when they were on vacation. Needless to say, I am so angry.

As soon as Big Dan called, I drove right into town to talk with the officer that worked the report. He said we would need to call our insurance agent on Monday with a list of property and report the damage to the vehicle.

The reality of this is...that there are just so many mean, ruthless people in the world and I guess this is just another hard lesson for him to learn. Not that I am blaming him, because it was totally out of his control. BUT, it is something we all need to realize. I guess it's just signs of the times.

The other reality is....

that if it's gonna happen....it's gonna happen to him.

And....it's almost 2 am. It's been a long stressful night, so I'm going to join hubby in dreamland.

Here's to another 100!!

Hen.. She Cackle

And my night of hosting the hen party has come to an end. This was our monthly scheduled ladies bible study night and I must say...it was good food, good friends, and lots of cackling. Now, I'm off to read some of your blogs since the kids are gone and hubby is headed to beddy by. Whoo Hoo!!

(And for those who may be stumped by my title, it is the name of a song my grandfather used to sing to me all of the time. It is etched in my mind forever. lol)

Preparations

It seems like school just started and now Big Dan has almost reached the halfway mark of his Senior Year. I can't believe it. I know the rest of the year will be filled with many important preparations for graduation and his future. Last night we sat down and got the order together for graduation invitations, name cards, and his cap and gown. Believe it or not, I didn't even get emotional. (Maybe it was because I was so tired from dealing with elementary children in the Art room all day. Finger painting with 1st graders will do that to you.)

I am hoping that our photographer that did his Senior portraits will be calling me in a few days with my code for online viewing. I can't hardly wait to share them with you. She took them digitally, and I looked through them on her camera. From what I could tell, they are going to be awesome..especially after she does some of her editing.


Today, after he had gone on to work, he got a call from a student ambassador from this college.

He had sent in his application a while back and they were calling to see if he had received his admissions packet in the mail, and if he was interested in setting up a tour of the campus. I talked to the guy for quite a while gathering information. I don't really think he has his mind made up on a college yet. I'm afraid his decision is going to be based on how far away he will have to get from the girlfriend, and whether or not he can play baseball for them.

And tomorrow is the deadline to register for the December ACT, so I guess I better get that taken care of so I won't have to pay late fees.

I am hoping he will agree to take a prep class somewhere this time to get his scores up, but I'm not sure he will.

And the preparations here at home continue as well....I've been in cleaning mode all day today and will be tomorrow too. I even got Pete to do some things around outside for me. I'm having the girls over tomorrow night and I'm trying to get it all together!

Yeah, so what...

if I complain.

Pete says I complain.....alot. That's one thing about me that really gets on his nerves. (Hey, at least he's honest about it). It's too hot. It's too cold. I'm too tired. I can't sleep. Don't go to work, I'm lonely. Get out of here and make me some money. Yeah, so what. I'm a woman. I'm fickle and as a woman, it's my right to complain.

I went most of my adult life without voting. I'll tell you why I didn't vote. I was ignorant....and scared, that's why. I had no clue who and what to vote for and I couldn't stand the thought of making a wrong choice. One thing I realize now, is I had a say, yet all I did was sit around and complain. And you do too. You have a say. You have a say, today.

And although I'm still afraid of making a wrong choice, I know God cares how I vote. So, I pray. I pray for His guidance in my decision. He has all the power and ultimately no matter how I vote, He is in control.

And if it goes my way.....maybe I won't complain.

Why?

I want to....
-get my entire house clean in one day.
-exercise daily and lose weight.
-pray and study more.
-miraculously find more energy.
-stop spending and start saving.

I don't want to....
-yell at my kids all the time.
-sleep so late on my days off.
-talk about people.
-wish I had something different than I have.
-eat for the heck of it.

So, tell me. Why can't I do the things I want to do and stop doing the things I don't want to do??

Paul said in Romans 7:15 and 19 - For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not, but what I hate, that do I. For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.

Why, oh why?

Darn flesh.

Just Wonderin'

why I still have zits at 38.

Got a full day today....church services, birthday dinners and baby showers.

Happy Sunday.

Wrapping it Up...

birthday presents and the month of October....that is.

If you read my letter to my firstborn, you know that Big Dan celebrated his 18th birthday Thursday. He had a good day complete with a birthday breakfast, a lunch his sister packed for him to take to school, and an evening spent with our family and the girlfriend at a Japanese steakhouse/sushi bar in the big city. I wanted it to be a special night and it was. The food was soooo good and the atmosphere was hysterical. The guy that cooked our food on the hibachi was so comical and he really made the kids laugh.

I love watching the tricks these guys do on the grill. They are pretty amazing if I do say so myself. After we ate our meal, several of the cooks came out pounding drums and singing Happy Birthday to both of the kids as they brought out the fried ice cream. The girlfriend will be turning 20 (yes, he's got an older woman) on Tuesday so it was kind of a 2 for one birthday dinner.

Can you say spoiled??? Oh. my. goodness. I bought Big Dan several items for his baseball career. He had told me his coach said he would be working on 1st base some this season and so I went all out on a really good 1st baseman's mitt. I didn't mind spending a little more because it was a special birthday and he is talking of playing baseball on the college level if able. I also went ahead and got him a really nice new bag, and a new pair of cleats. The girlfriend got him 2 Ed Hardy tees, a fossil watch and a Lacosta cologne gift pack. Not to mention that she has already bought him a Ralph Lauren cap.

He got several cards (that included cold hard cash) in the mail and tomorrow we are having Sunday lunch with my mom and dad and so the gift giving will continue. I know he has had a great 18th.

Last night we had our 2nd annual "Trunk or Treat" at the church. We decorate the trunks of our cars...or in my case the back of my mini van..lol.., dress up and pass out candy from the parking lot. I like it alot because it gives us all a chance to fellowship with friends while giving the kids a safe place to trick or treat. I also like not having to take Little Ann door to door. She loves to trick or treat, but she has never eaten the candy. Yes, my child is a unique one indeed. Not only is she a major germaphobe, she is convinced all Halloween candy is evil and laced with cyanide. Most every year I end up taking the candy to my students just to get it out of the house. Anyway, with the trunk or treat, she gets to play with her friends while in costume and I don't have to bring home lots of extra calories.

My mom made our costumes and I thought they turned out so cute. Little Ann picked out her pattern and then we just ran with the rest of a 50's theme. She wanted to be a 50's car hop and so I went with the poodle skirt thing.

A couple of nights ago I went up to my mom's attic and dug out my old records to hang from the back of the van. I also had a cd of oldies but goodies playing which really set the mood. I just laughed at the kids though. I can't tell you how many kids came by and asked me what the records were. They honestly had no clue. Isn't that funny?

Anyway, I can't believe how fast October flew by. I am sorry I have been so lame lately. I know several of you have given me awards, memes, tags, gifts by real mail, and even boo-ed me and I haven't responded to any of that. I am going to, I promise. I know the rest of the year is going to be just as hectic...for all of us.

I tried to do a little something new with the blog this morning too. And if you noticed..or if you didn't, I have changed it about 10 times trying to get happy with it. This seems to suit my fancy at the moment, but don't be surprised if it comes up different again soon.

Enjoy your weekend.

November.....

A new month....A new look.
Happy November One.

(I'm just having a hard time deciding which look)